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I Ching hexagram 44 of 64

44. Coming to Meet 姤

An attractive but corrosive force is entering. Don't commit to it just because it's compelling.

By the Daoly team · Updated November 2026

Name姤 Gòu, “Coming to Meet”
Upper trigram☰ 乾 Heaven: strength and initiative
Lower trigram☴ 巽 Wind: gentle, persistent influence

The Judgment

女壮,勿用取女。

The woman is strong. Do not marry her.

An attractive but corrosive force is entering. Don't commit to it just because it's compelling.

The Image

天下有风,姤;后以施命诰四方。

Wind beneath heaven — Coming to Meet. The prince issues commands and proclaims them to the four directions.

When subtle bad influence enters, make your values loud. Announce who you are everywhere — that's the defense.

The six lines

If a line changes in your cast, read its text below. Lines are numbered from the bottom.

Line 1 · first (bottom) · Yin

系于金柅,贞吉。有攸往,见凶。羸豕孚蹢躅。

Tied to a metal brake. Stay true — fortune. If one lets it move, misfortune unfolds. A lean pig — wholly restless.

Lock down the temptation before it can run. If it gets loose, it spirals fast.

Line 2 · second · Yang

包有鱼,无咎。不利宾。

In the bag is a fish. No blame. Not wise to share with guests.

Something valuable lands in your hands by chance. Keep it private — don't put it on display.

Line 3 · third · Yang

臀无肤,其行次且。厉,无大咎。

Thighs without skin. Walking is difficult. Danger — no great blame.

You're tempted but unable to act on it. The friction is uncomfortable but it protects you.

Line 4 · fourth · Yang

包无鱼,起凶。

No fish in the bag. This is the basis of misfortune.

Lost touch with the people you should be close to. That distance is where the trouble starts.

Line 5 · fifth · Yang

以杞包瓜,含章,有陨自天。

A melon covered with willow leaves. Hidden beauty. Then it falls from heaven.

Quiet, contained virtue. You don't seek attention — but the recognition arrives anyway, almost magically.

Line 6 · top · Yang

姤其角,吝,无咎。

Coming to meet with the horns. Shame. No blame.

Confronting the situation head-on, even ungracefully. Awkward — but you didn't compromise.

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Frequently asked questions

What does Hexagram 44: Coming to Meet mean?

An attractive but corrosive force is entering. Don't commit to it just because it's compelling. It combines Heaven (乾) above Wind (巽) below.

What is the Chinese name of Hexagram 44?

Hexagram 44 is 姤 (Gòu), usually translated as “Coming to Meet.”

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